Assumptions
Assumptions
How many times have you made an assumption about a situation
or another person, to later find out it was nothing like what you thought?
Assumptions are very unhealthy; they keep us from the lesson
of learning to just speak up. If we are making assumptions then we are probably
not just talking to the person and asking questions for clarity. Assumptions
are very disempowering as they lead us to mentally create stories in our head
and waste a lot of energy on something that many not even exists.
Remember that when you make an assumption is based on your
own beliefs and your perception which is based on those beliefs. Example is if
you feel unappreciated in life you will make the assumption fit your beliefs of
being unappreciated when in fact that might not be what is happening in the
scenario you are manifesting assumptions about. As you waste energy on
assumptions you normally also get very emotional about the story you are
creating in your mind, and when we do this we are giving energy to it and
manifesting into a reality somewhere down the road. Now we will manifest a
different situation to validate that we are not appreciated. Once we do that we
reinforce this wound or old program we have. It is a vicious circle.
Where most things we create assumptions about would take 15
minutes to clear up and they are usually never what we think they were. We
spend hours and days agonizing over something that is not even a truth. How
much easier would it be just to ask questions and clarify? What keeps you from
just doing this? These are things to ask you’re self.
Make life less complicated and when you find you are
creating a story (assuming) stop yourself and ask what I am afraid of? What
chord in me is being triggered (such as unappreciated) do I have to look at and
release and heal? Use your tools and know when you are assuming there is more
of a lesson in it for you and it is letting you know there is something inside
of you that you may want to explore. This is self awareness!
Blessings,
Anne Angelheart
February 18, 2012
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Don’t Throw the Baby Out With the Bath Water
How many times have you heard that? It is an interesting
saying for what it truly means but the important thing here is to look at what
it means.
I had a great teacher once who after I had read a book and
was so moved by the message told him all about it. Then I later found out the
author not only did not really believe in it but did not walk it in life. I
told my teacher how disappointed I was with it and now the information seemed
tainted. He told me don’t kill the message with the messenger. If the messages
felt true, why not keep them, you’re not embracing the author, your embracing
the teaching, the words?
There were many other times way back then he also reminded
me don’t throw the baby out with the bath water. Once I found or felt people in
a situation were out of integrity I would walk away never looking back. I then
learned in my walk many many years ago, these people and situations are in my
life for lessons and to look at my own stuff. Even if someone does an unkind
act, does that make them a bad person or not worthy of a relationship? I am not
saying if it is constant, we have to have discernment when a relationship with
someone is done for us, but if we ended things with a friend or mate over occasional
actions, we would be guilty of not seeing our own human moments that we display
in life while walking the journey and learning. Being human and on this earth
is all about learning and if we did not have things polar experiences we would
not have a way to truly learn our lessons.
Even when we do decide that certain relationships need to
end, there are still many lessons in the experiences you have had with that
person that were opportunities to see differently and grow. It is always about
looking in and looking at our self, yet we distract our self from that by
focusing on the actions of another. If we fixate on what is bothering us about
the other person, we drag out the true lesson, which is to look inside and ask
why am I experiencing this and what is in my life to see and learn about? Once
we see that and heal it, there is the opportunity the relationship may change
for the better or if we decide we are done with that relationship we can walk
away with gratitude and love for them on providing those lessons for us. We can
let go with love and not hold on to ill feelings that in all reality just add
to or own dysfunction and is not healing.
If there are any people you are irritated or hurt or
bothered by right now, ask why is this experience in my life and what am I to
see about me and learn about me from this. This is awareness.
Blessings,
Anne Angelheart
January 19, 2012
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Changing Your Perception
How you view the world around you is also creating what you believe and how you act or react to certain situations. I had so many clients in the last 3 months share with me the many things that seem to be coming up for them. A few common ones were noticing that they were having issues with family and friends. They felt after loving them and doing for them was unappreciated and that they now felt taken for granted. Another was that they had friends or family they really love and noticed they were in unhealthy relationships or situations and that they wanted so much for their loved one not to be hurt that they were having a hard time being around them when knowing their relationship or situation was going to one day be a perceived negative thing. The other common theme was people sharing they had friends or family who disrespected them and showed this by how they treated them or talked to them and that it was always like this but now they were noticing it more.
 I decided to write my thoughts and perceptions here in the blog since so many have brought this up, that hopefully this message will reach many more and assist you in healing this inside of you.
 One question was “If you give to someone because you love them and then they do not appreciate it or be there for you when you need them, how is that even energy exchange?”
 Giving from the heart is a choice and it is truly love when you do not expect something in return. Love is expressed with no strings attached. The love you put out in the world will come back to you and can come back to you in other ways, so there is always even energy exchange.
 Question two “I love my sister but her relationship is so bad and I worry she will be hurt. She can’t see it and I have a hard time being around them as a couple knowing she will eventually be hurt or break it off. How can I change this?”
 Nothing is good or bad; it is all just lessons and experiences in life to learn. If your sister/friend believes she is happy now, then support that she/he is feeling happiness in the moment. No matter how the relationship turns out, they hopefully will have learned many lessons from it. If not, they will get another opportunity to learn them again in a different relationship. We can find joy in someone feeling that they are experiencing happiness in the moment and have no judgment of how they choose to learn their lessons here. We are basing our feelings on what we perceive the future holds for that person’s outcome. Living in the moment is to see what that person is experiencing in the moment. If we react in the NOW for something in the future which may or may not happen we are missing all the greatness that is happening in the moment. Bless them and honor their way of them choosing to live their lessons out.
 Third question “I love my mate/friend/family member but I have grown and worked on self love and the way they treat me or talk to me is disrespectful. I have told them but they still do it, how do I deal with it?”
 We must be accountable that at some point we did let them treat us this way with no cause and effect. It is okay to grow and now not want to allow this in your life anymore, but since they are used to doing this and we allowed it to be alright, we must also give them a chance to realize we are different and we no longer will tolerate it. If they choose not to change this, the best thing to do is to put your hand up, say STOP! Then say I will not be treated this way, and if you choose to continue I am walking away from the situation until you can talk to me with respect. If they never do, then it is time to look at letting go of old relationships that you created as the old you. Now attract new people and relationships that match the new and healed you. Know though that you built the relationship on who you were then and so find love and healing in releasing these people in your life.
 I hope these tips assist you, I know so many have gone through these themes since October and it seems it will continue through Jan 2012, so having tools is a joyful way to walk through this.
 Anne Angelheart
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November 29, 2011
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The Holidays with Universal Laws
You may be wondering, how the 12 Universal Laws would apply to the holidays. Since the Laws are occurring whether we know it or not, they are occurring 24 hours a day 7 days a week, no matter what we are doing. So let’s look at what we may be putting out at the holidays that will affect our life’s long past the holidays,
 How many times have you bought a gift out of guilt or you feel pressured to because you know that person gave you a gift? A gift given with guilt is no longer a gift. The energy (feeling) you gave that gift is attached to the gift and the energy is not from the heart. Your old feelings and programs of guilt have been acted upon and now this is what you have put out to the world and with cause and effect it will return in a less than way of energy.
 Do you over extend yourself during the holidays, putting out more than you are comfortable with? We tend to accept invitations and over give during the holidays. If we are making our self busy to the point of not being good to ourselves, we are out of balance with our energy. When we do this in over giving, it reflects in other parts of life, and we may experience lack in other areas of our life due to this. Lack of time, finances, resources, business ECT. The laws do not take a holiday break, so we want to be conscious of what we are doing during the holiday sason so we can continue to be in balance and reap the rewards for this.
 Imagine your self walking the holidays differently. Only doing what truly brings you joy, only gifting what truly comes from your heart which would not be feelings of guilt or feeling obligated. Taking time to breathe and take care of you and not get over extended, walking the holidays relaxed and with Joy. If you do this, this is what you are putting out to the world and with this intention; you will be in balance with the laws and with your self. Remember, what we do, we are making a statement to others and we are teaching our children from what actions we take. Empower yourself, your children and the loved ones around you by being an example of love from the heart and not love from guilt. Give the greatest gift of all, empowerment and acceptance. Blessings and Happy Holidays.
November 16, 2011
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How Universal Laws Assist Our Life.
Most of us have all been introduced to the Law of Attraction or as the movie called it The Secret. It really has never been a secret other than maybe the name of the Universal Law itself. Entrepreneurs have always lived this way and applied this Law to their businesses, just without the label. The Law of Attraction is one of twelve laws that when we understand even just two of them, we are on the road to success.Â
I have been teaching for 22 years and I always integrate the Soul work into every class. More and more these days I hear my clients tell me the New Age approach is not working for them. This is because New Age is an approach, a belief, but not always necessarily SOUL WORK.Â
These are all good tools, but only part of the tools. It also is about understanding all of Universal Laws and how to apply them in your life. Think of wearing a tool belt and having many tools on that tool belt for construction work. You have all the tools yet you have no knowledge or understanding of constructing a building. You may be able to hammer a little, or put some screws into some things, but you would not be able to build a whole building
Knowledge is good but understanding is experiencing that knowledge which leads to wisdom!
November 3, 2011
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Twelve Universal Laws
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October 2, 2011
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The Universe is Asking, Are You Always in Integrity
The energies on the planet right now are really opening people’s eyes to any illusions that are happening in the world today. The energies are very strong in supporting truth and integrity on all levels. Because of this anything not in truth or integrity is standing out to us more than usual.
 When energies occur planetary like that, the energies are also asking for us to look at our self. Most of us of course are not intentionally being out of integrity. We can be out of integrity though in a subtle way. It is no coincidence that my guides and angels had me write three different seminars on Integrity and Ethics and launch them this month. I did not know at the time I wrote them that the energies would be a focus of this topic and will be over the next coming months. When we are out of our truth or integrity with self and others, subtlety or not, it effects our manifestations. It is against the flow of the Universal Laws, and when something is out of flow with the laws we experience blocks or the polarities of what we are trying to manifest.
 1)    We all want to receive our money on time, so we have to ask, do we always pay others on time?
2)Â Â Â Â We all want to be respected and have our space respected, and then we have to ask do we respect all other space, not just peoples?
There are many other places in our life we need to look at and do a check in but it would be too much to write in this article (see upcoming workshops on Integrity and Ethics). The fact is if we do not even understand some of the ways we are out of our truth and integrity how would we know what to check in on inside of ourselves. We are always looking in and evaluating where we are and what we want to choose to do to grow and be the best person we can here on the planet. We must first understand what exactly are we looking for inside, what are our ideas of being in truth and integrity.
A small example is wanting to be loved yet we do not love our self, wanting to be acknowledged yet are not acknowledging our self and our truths of our true being. This topic will over and over again visit each of us until we get it about what is it to be integrity and truth with our self. This energy will continue all through 2011.
The more joyful path would be to understand it and make choices and changes to flow with the energy and the less joyful is to stay unconscious about truth and integrity and continue to block our selves from all that we truly deserve.
Either way you choose to learn this lesson IT will present itself to you over and over again. If people are being out of their truth with you and out of integrity with you then you may want to do an inner check where you may be out of integrity also with your self or others because it is only a mirror when we experience these things in our lives.
May 18, 2011
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Top 10 Changes or Lessons for 2010
To start with the energies/theme of 2010 was all about letting go of the old and becoming empowered. It was a year of awakening for many and how we all affect each other on the planet. Flowing with those lessons made your life more joyful and new beginnings in the starting, resisting made obstacles that turned from mole hills to mountains. How did you walk 2010?
1) More people found they awakened to their intuition and those who knew of their intuition, it increased.
2) We as a whole became aware of the saying “It takes a village” and realized community efforts were a must.
3) This was a year to stretch outside the box in everything and we found community solutions to where we saw none before. We rose to the occasion in a difficult economy.
4) Understanding we really are connected hit the heart this past year and helped us realize how much we are one on this planet, leading us to the journey of compassion.
5) We learned to release attachments and live life fully and that it wasn’t about STUFF! It was about who we are inside which led many to explore who they really are inside.
6) The lesson of accountability visited us personally and as a country, nation and globally.
7) 2010 was a launch for many to truly open and heal the heart and this began a journey to FEELING again!
Who am I? Why am I here? What do I really want to do? These questions were ever haunting for all of us this year and started the opening to explore different tools different ways of living life. It sent many on the exploration of new tools and letting go of what had not worked for them in the past.
9) Mother Nature decided to cleanse and teach us what is really important and what is not. It brought lessons of helping each other and took being neighborly to a global neighborhoods and not just the one we live in. What a great teacher she is.
10) Oprah took the AHA moment to a HUGE level and taught brought more awareness openly to the world.
　
　
February 7, 2011
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Thoughts on Valentine’s Day
Valentine’s Day is approaching us and I had looked up in my office to see a handmade heart with a message on it for me that I have kept up all year. I was thinking how every day when I look over and up I see this beautiful little heart made by a little girl I know Kayla, and it makes me smile every time I look at it. Every single day it brings a smile to my face, a jump n my heart and I feel how special it was that with love she thought of me and made me this heart. All year long it brings me love and joy.
This made me think about how we have made this holiday about couples, yet it is just really a day to honor let someone know you love them or are thinking about them. Not that we do not do this all year round, but it is a special day set aside for it like a birthday is a special day to honor your being here. This is a special day to communicate you love for all of who is in your heart. Again, I know we do this everyday and this is good but maybe looking at this day to reach out to a loved one that maybe you have not communicated with in awhile? Maybe that might even be you.
So many women have told me lately, single women, how they hate that day, that it makes it so much more apparent to them that they are alone or not with a loved one. How about being with yourself, a loved one and pampering you, or take yourself out, or buy yourself flowers or candy? Why not? It starts with loving you and having a sacred relationship with yourself first, so why not celebrate that and show it on Valentine’s Day? After doing that, make a list of people in your heart and see if there is anyone you have told lately how much they mean to you, or how much they live in your heart. Why not make them a Valentine?
It is not the heart sitting in my office that brings me that love, it is the thought and feelings I get from it when I look at it, and reminds me of Kayla reaching out and sending love and now I have a visual for me to feel it everyday when I look at it. What a gift, and what a gift you can give someone else. Everyone likes to know and remember that someone out there thought of them and loves them.
Remember when you were a kid; you gave them to your family, teacher, and friends. Remember looking through them at every message and picture and spending time to give that special person just the right message and picture? Remember the feeling you had in your heart when you found the perfect one or made the perfect one. The love and excitement you felt and it was all about giving it to them and letting them know you care. Find that place in your heart again and remember like that child, it was not about an intimate partner then, it was about everyone who lives in your heart. First love and nurture you, then reach out to someone and send a note or card of how much you love and care for them and spread the gift of the heart.
I would love to hear any experiences you may have with this. Happy Valentine’s Day this year!!   Anne Angelheart
January 24, 2011
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Raising Your Vibration
I actually had a request to write on this topic of raising your vibration. Different people have different beliefs on this topic, key word here being BELIEF. What you do believe is truth for you and so if you have a certain belief, then that is what will happen for you.
An example is many believe that you cannot raise your vibration unless you are a vegetarian, or vegan, or have no preservatives in foods at all. Some believe you cannot raise your vibration if you smoke and then on the other hand some of those same people feel it is ok to smoke marijuana though (perception). So, if you believe then it is so!
Personally, even though many of these things are true of having a healthier body, I have never found them to be true of someone wanting to raise their vibration. For me they are independent of each other. Many people told me as a smoker or as someone who was not on a vegan diet I could not channel higher info, yet I came into this world getting this info and have done it since 5 no matter how my life changed over the years. It is also believed by some organizations I could not access certain guides or info with out being whatever there religion was, yet I always have been able to. So in my opinion and experience over the years, it is about working on your inner self. The more layers of emotional and sub conscious issues you work through and the more you actually heal and make change within yourself, the more your vibration increases. The more you work on you, you change perception to a higher level, and the more conscious in your every moment you become, the higher your vibration becomes. The key is releasing old programs, healing issues and being in your NOW~~~Consciously! Making new and higher choices for every moment of your life. Meditation is also a key here for the answers really do lie within and this is where you will here your truth.
I also throw out there just for thought, if you have beliefs on such things as certain things you have to do to raise your vibration, maybe that is just truth for you and by saying that others that are not doing what your belief is are not raising vibration or do not have a high vibration, could this be judgment? If so, how is that a high vibration? Just a thought.
Working on being the best light you can be daily raises the vibration. So the more you work on you and make positive changes the more your vibration will rise up. Infinity is where you can go with it, it is a choice.
Blessings,
Anne
December 22, 2010
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